Everybody wants to be free of the boundaries that a relationship restricts us to and this is the sole reason many people end up in this ‘friends with benefits’ thing these days.It is beneficial as in you are getting what you want and there will be no responsibility, sacrifice or loyalty from your side.
But why friends with benefits thing can ruin your entire life? the fact is when you fall in this trap there is no escape. For you feel that your life has become perfect instantly. You get used to it so much that you start spoiling yourself. Where reputation is something very important these days and it takes years to maintain a good one, you end up spoiling it instead. Only if you think that this ‘fwb’thing makes you sound cool, intriguing, unorthodox then sorry mate the tag of ‘fwb’ will not help.
so basically you are a ‘casual relationship person’ but after a long time doing this ‘fwb’ stuff suddenly you get tired of it. *sigh* 😥 this seems so fake.. well now you want a serious relationship. Where you want a decent person now. But wait? aren’t you that ‘fwb’ person ? 😮 sorry mate but the tag will never leave you.
Infact sometimes or in some cases such people are good but in order to become cool or stud infront those friends (who won’t even help you when you need them) they get this tag and ruin their reputation.
Not every girl is impressed by this ‘cool’ thing of yours. Infact it seems ridiculous that you are not capable of maintaining a good or healthy relationship with 1 girl. To whom you would be loyal to or compatible with? it doesn’t matter because things are never perfect.. and imperfection is beaute.. ❤