change is inevitable

Sometimes ‘change is good’ but what if it hardly ever favoured the person. What if it bought more chaos, hurdles, obstructions? There are whole lot of feelings when you know that your life is changing.. it’s taking a turn. There are thoughts which ping you day and night. They never let you sleep. Makes you feel anxious. You have to indulge yourself in other stuff in order to make your mind drift from those anxious thoughts and then suddenly amidst of your work, you stop and think.. 


Did i started fearing this change? Am i afraid of it? Should everything stay the same as it is? Me. Everyone. Everything. Life?

Somewhere i just saw the negative impacts of ‘change’ maybe because we remember more of our distressful moments. Maybe change has a room for positive impacts.

I don’t know what kind of impact change will have on me. But for now i am anxious/distressed because i know it is quite difficult to fit in a different environment or adapt it. Something more difficult is to modify it to fit in your needs. Not everyone is a born street smart person. 

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41 thoughts on “change is inevitable

  1. hi..now and after the change has occurred, are you still anxious/distressed ..You were unsure of the kind of impact change will have on you. However, is it wise to review the change impact now?

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  2. This is a very insightful post. Also, the way you write it makes me wonder if you’re going through a big change right now? You don’t have to answer that if you don’t want to; I’m just thinking out loud. But you’re right, some changes can be difficult to adjust to.

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    1. Thank you 🙂 yes i am going through a big change right now but it is hardly noticeable by people as few of them never fear change.. the fact is people change, life change but then at the end it is ‘you’ who faces all such hassles and challenges.. so your conception should be clear whether you are afraid or confident about it.. 🙂 🙂 and when the change hardly ever favoured you in the past.. anxiousness is obvious..

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  3. Some might not be born street smart, but we’re all born instinctually smart. Whatever happens, follow your instincts. Change is inevitable. How we react to change is not. How we react to change can affect us deeply, but we need to be mindful. Sometimes change, like a riptide, pulls us and we can’t do anything about it. Most of the time we can. Most of the time we can make positive things gravitate towards us by remaining centered and balanced. Great write, well done.

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    1. Yes nothing is contradictory about this opinion you hold.. i guess you got me completely … i totally agree with the fact that change is inevitable but how we react to change is not. Optimism would definitely help.. but you see i wrote ‘what if change hardly ever favoured the person’ to this i would say, it would require great amount of effort from my side to accept positivity and keep hope that maybe this time it will be in favour of mine.. 🙂 thank you very much.. ❤

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  4. I agree with almost everything here Ritika….. ‘Change is inevitable’ is quite a thought-of post, gravitated by a lot of unsung prose of life………… but certainly I see, we mess around quite often by being too thoughtful sometimes…..as it is said more profound species are complicated in itself…… sometime let us take the flow…but then there is fear :-/

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  5. Great post on Change, yes it is inevitable and can be great and not so great. But, if we change our thought process and accept it is inevitable, that there is benefit in everything, then change no matter how scary it is can be the best thing that happened in mylife.

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